Therapy with Cal
helping clients and their families navigate identity and gender
CAL KLINGENSMITH, LCSW
Therapy isn’t changing who you are, it’s about helping you be more yourself.
Individual therapy is a safe place to talk about anything and everything.
It is an opportunity to challenge the status quo and try new ways to handle the stressors in your life.
Clients are ready to meet me when they’re ready to choose themselves.
Feelings are part of life - but regulating them is hard and tolerating the uncomfortable ones is extra hard. Managing your emotions is not taught in schools or valued in today's culture.
In fact, you may have been told feelings are not important and should be ignored or pushed away. This can leave you feeling totally lost about how to cope when faced with any sort of emotional experience.
My Therapy Specialties
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I’m a trans therapist who has transitioned myself and spent nearly 10+ years working almost exclusively with trans and queer clients.
We start by saying things out loud that have lived only internally. We work toward accepting parts of you that may have felt confusing or heavy with shame. From there, we explore steps that make sense for you, at your pace, in your real life.
Therapy with me is relational, active, and grounded. We make space for gender questions, and also look at who you are outside of your gender.
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There is no right way to be queer. That is both what’s fun and challenging. Therapy is not about fitting into an identity or label.
Queerness can bring relief and confusion at the same time. You may carry shame about parts of yourself you were taught not to want or name. You may feel lonely without a community or not sure which part of the community you belong to.
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A trans man myself, I’ve spent years working with trans teens/ young adults, their parents, and families because transition impacts more than one person at a time.
I work with parents, teens, young adults or both, depending on what feels right. Sometimes we meet individually. Sometimes we come together as a team. We focus on understanding gender, managing anxiety, and improving communication so everyone feels heard and supported.
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“Life's not worth a damn till you can say,
Hey world, I am what I am”
Cal Klingensmith, LCSW
👋🏼 Hi there! I’m Cal.
As a trans guy, I have a special place in my heart for clients who are exploring their gender/sexuality. Whether you are just starting to question or worried about coming out or need letters to obtain appropriate medical care - a safe place to process can be very helpful.
Working together, we can explore what parts of yourself you are connected to and what parts you may have pushed away out of fear or shame. Slowly, you can become reacquainted yourself and with what makes you uniquely you.
Getting to know yourself is a lifelong journey - but if you are interested in starting or continuing, I'd love to join you.
Therapy With Me Is
relational and insight oriented.
Practical tools + deeper exploration.
Focused on how your past shapes your present.
Active, engaged, and goal directed.
Challenging you with care, not letting you stay stuck.
Identifying patterns that no longer serve you.
Taking real steps toward a more effective and authentic life.
Starting Therapy Together
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I offer every new client a free consultation. It’s your chance to ask any questions and see what it’s like to work together.
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If you decide we’re a fit, we’ll have a first intake session. These are 50 minutes - letting us go deeper into what brings you to therapy and to see if you feel comfortable with my style and energy.
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Your therapy sessions are tailored to your unique challenges, offering a supportive space to gain insight, build skills, and create change.